All this legal bullshit could have been avoided if this was a program for people to run on their own computers. Why oh why is this being run as a service?

The main point is to share information. You and your father and your sister are all taking care of your mother with alzheimers. What was the geriatrist's phone number again?

As another commenter commented, this would be a good candidate for a local-first app. I'd love to do that at some point.