is that why you are going through all my comments and flagging and downvoting? you know this just makes you look even worse right?

That's not how flags work on HN: I can't flag your responses to me. For a variety of reasons, and for better or worse, I'm very comfortable with how I come across on HN.

To twist the knife just a little bit, I'll refer you though to the guidelines:

Please don't comment about the voting on comments. It never does any good, and it makes boring reading.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html