▲ | simgt 2 days ago | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I don't know if that was your intention, but I basically understand from your comment that black men and powerful women are two components of reality that are bothering you to start with. Yes all new British and American productions are ticking these two boxes, but it's not shouting at all of us. I suspect for the Japanese women who are putting in perspective the extreme conservatism on gender roles prevalent in their country, most Japanese fiction shouts at them about real life too. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
▲ | ValentinA23 a day ago | parent | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
>I suspect for the Japanese women who are putting in perspective the extreme conservatism on gender roles prevalent in their country, most Japanese fiction shouts at them about real life too. https://www.bbc.com/news/business-19674306 The 15th of each month is a big day for 36-year-old Yoshihiro Nozawa: it is the day he gets paid. But every month, he hands over his entire salary to his wife Masami. She controls the household budget and gives him a monthly pocket money of 30,000 yen ($381; £243). Despite being the breadwinner, that is all the money he can spend on himself over the next 30 days. "The last five days from the 10th of each month are usually the toughest," says Yoshihiro. [...] 47-year-old Taisaku Kubo has been getting 50,000 yen a month from his wife Yuriko for the past 15 years. He has tried to negotiate a pay rise each year but his wife makes a presentation to explain why it cannot be done. "She draws a pie chart of our household budget to explain why I cannot get more pocket money," says Taisaku. [...] So why don't men start controlling the household budgets themselves? "I don't think many men hand over their entire salaries happily," says career consultant Takao Maekawa of FeelWorks. "But they feel it's their obligation to earn money for the family even if it means they have to suffer themselves." | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
▲ | scarmig a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Imagine a world where literature was preoccupied with height. A character is always slotted in who's explicitly the token short character, and the storyline is always, subtly or not, written to highlight how the world is biased against short people. Authors are very cautious about depicting a short person with any negative trait; when they do, a direct line is drawn between the social circumstances they encountered and their future actions. This would be exhausting, and people would rightly start to roll their eyes at it. And it would be fine for readers to object to it, even as short people are a component of reality. It wouldn't mean the complainant finds short people objectionable in themselves, but simply that they don't think height is a defining part of reality that all of literature is obligated to address. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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