being a parent has been done to death. hundreds of thousands of morons have raised kids and we are all fine. drop the books, drop “consensus” (do you REALLY want your child like all others???!) and just be there, just be there and be a dad

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MeetingsBrowser 10 months ago | parent [-]

> thousands of morons have raised kids and we are all fine

Not sure I agree that we are all fine.

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muzani 10 months ago | parent | next [-]

Back in my school, teachers would beat up kids because it keeps them from becoming drug addicts. So the definition of fine back then was "not a drug addict". If you were ambitious, it would be "graduated from college".

	▲	ndjdjddjsjj 10 months ago \| parent \| next [-]
		Stops the teachers from becoming drug addicts? A good bit of HIIT to fuel their dopamine I guess!
	▲	andrei_says_ 10 months ago \| parent \| prev \| next [-]
		Ironically, drug addiction is often related to early life trauma.
	▲	bdangubic 10 months ago \| parent \| prev [-]
		school is a WHOLE OTHER story from parenting though… most schools will F kids up :)

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bdangubic 10 months ago | parent | prev [-]

there 8+ billion of us, not all can be fine I agree. my comment was just a general principle that we overdo and over think parenting. BE THERE and use common sense - that will take care of most of what your kid needs.