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freeone3000 4 days ago

There’s no “correct” pronouns for you — just choose the ones you like.

nogridbag 4 days ago | parent [-]

I know there's no correct answer. But I legit wanted to understand what my answer actually means and why we are presenting seemingly duplicate options. I tried googling "capital he him pronoun" and all the references were about god. From a UX point of view, we tried to eliminate non essential questions like "choose 3 items that interest you" from forms years ago. There's also no correct answer for that but some users drop off sign ups when they're forced to answer too my fields. And that's kind of what happened to me here. Sorry if this seems silly or nitpicky!

sudahtigabulan 3 days ago | parent | next [-]

Letter case in pronouns is sometimes used in BDSM context to emphasize dominance (or lack thereof).

nogridbag 3 days ago | parent [-]

Hah I saw that reference in my search results but eliminated it as a possibility because the target app is for middle schoolers. But if that's the accepted underlying cultural meaning of why someone would select that now people reading my comments above might understand why I felt the need to Google this. Choosing an option is signaling something and in this case it might imply I'm into BDSM.

episteme 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I don't think there is any real difference between the three options you had to choose between.

sigseg1v 3 days ago | parent | prev [-]

I would just say to implement it as an optional field or make "I don't know" the first in the list