I think he lives in or are from India, society and family expectations are different there, not his "fault".

@faangguyindia, I hope everything will be ok one day :-) Or maybe it already is? You wrote "was".

I might be wrong but I think if you (@faangguy) manage to create a life that makes you feel happy, the women will notice that you're happy, and that goes a long way. But you'll also need to be somewhere where there are some women around? (obviously) If you're in a FAANG in SF maybe for the moment that's not so easy