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I don't know the original comment's intent, but adding "..." at the end of your message is now considered by some as rude:

https://workplace.stackexchange.com/questions/149145/is-the-...

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bityard 4 days ago | parent [-]

Just because someone is confident about their own weird interpretation of something on the Internet does not make it true.

I (and lot of people I know) use elipsis in writing all the time... usually to indicate a pause or change of direction from the previous thought. If I am in a hurry to get technical details down in text and off to some team, worrying about 100% correct proper writing style is time and luxury that I almost NEVER have.

And besides, unless you work in a law office or something, email is NOT a formal communications method. Grammar and spelling should be within acceptable limits but not a deal-breaker. Otherwise you'd be skating near the principle of judging a book by its cover which would be very un-woke.

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nimblegorilla 4 days ago | parent | next [-]

> Just because someone is confident about their own weird interpretation of something on the Internet does not make it true.

You seem confident about your interpretation...

Does that help you understand?

	▲	bityard 4 days ago \| parent [-]
		I see what you did there...

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latexr 4 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Just because someone is confident about their own weird interpretation of something on the Internet does not make it true.

Agreed. Though in the case of “cool…” there is precedent. For example, John Oliver says it sarcastically¹ with some regularity. Well, he can’t say the ellipsis, but it’s how I’d have written it.

Either way, I’m agreeing with you. People also think that putting a period at the end of a text message is rude², which is bonkers to me³. Soon we won’t be able to use any punctuation without it being considered dismissive⁴.

¹ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A8q8PXoJwVk

² https://www.nytimes.com/2021/06/29/crosswords/texting-punctu...

³ I do it all the time. People get used to it and learn it’s just how I write.

⁴ Yes, that’s a slippery slope fallacy. I’m employing it for comedic effect, not as a real complaint of “kids these days”.

	▲	bityard 4 days ago \| parent [-]
		> People also think that putting a period at the end of a text message is rude Yes, this is essentially the kind of thing that I was thinking of. It's nutty. I submit that anyone who assuming malice on the part of the sender without ANY direct evidence to support it likely has some trust issues to work out with their therapist. I started out my adult life being deeply distrustful of basically everyone and it took a LONG time to learn that (lacking direct evidence) assuming the best in people's intentions makes you a lot happier and gets you a lot farther in life. I'm also reminded of the saying, "offense is taken, not given."

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bilekas 4 days ago | parent | prev [-]

A good rulem of thumb I've found is, if your comment doesn't bring any value and could be taken as rude or flippant, then there's no need to post it. IMO this "Cool..." fits that description pretty well. Nothing to do with "woke" etc. Just doesn't bring any value.