I lived a year in a great hostel run by a German girl in Mexico.

She was always planning social events, hyping the place so that it was full of interesting people, and more. It was the most social part of my life even though I was 30.

But she also was frantic and obsessive and short tempered which was off putting.

Other guests would often complain about her, and they would phrase it as if she’d be cool if only she could turn down that one aspect about her. I had the same reaction at first too.

But eventually it became painfully obvious to me that that’s not how people work. Because the quirk you’re complaining about is the same quirk that got her to start a successful hostel across the world that we’re all enjoying.

We aren’t a bunch of independent levers that we get to adjust. Yet for some reason we pretend like that’s the case.

where in mexico? sounds really cool