(I'm biased, I'm the author of Chancy)

One of the major complaints with Celery is observability. Databased-backed options like Procastinate and Chancy will never reach the potential peak throughput of Celery+RabbitMQ, but they're still sufficient to run millions upon millions of tasks per day even on a $14/month VPS. The tradeoff to this is excellent insight into what's going on - all state lives in the database, you can just query it. Both Procastinate and Chancy come with Django integrations, so you can even query it with the ORM.

For Chancy in particular, retries are a (very trivial) plugin (that's enabled by default) - https://github.com/TkTech/chancy/blob/main/chancy/plugins/re.... You can swap it out and add whatever complex retry strategies you'd like.

Chancy also comes with a "good enough" metrics plugin and a dashboard. Not suitable for an incredibly busy instance with tens of thousands of distinct types of jobs, but good enough for most projects. You can see the new UI and some example screenshots in the upcoming 0.26 release - https://github.com/TkTech/chancy/pull/58 (and that dashboard is for a production app running ~600k jobs a day on what's practically a toaster). The dashboard can be run standalone locally and pointing to any database as-needed, run inside a worker process, or embedded inside any existing asgi app.